Pink’ed

Pink was made of mixing white with red in school when the paint box didn’t have this shade. But as we grow we find that pink is a colour on it’s own right!

Pink considered to be the most feminine colour. Think Elle Woods ( Legally Blonde) and Barbie. The different shades have made the colour more versatile. There seems to be a pink for every occassion as it can dressed up.or toned down depending on the outing.

When one says pink, the first thing most people think of is lipsticks, nail polish and blush. As when one thinks of a dewy look pink lipstick seems a must with a hint of blush on the cheeks. Girls have been associated with pink from the time they are born, we see hundreds of little dolls all dressed in pink, with changing times the notions have changed but still very few men brave this colour.

Pink has created the mindset of a very girly girl , prim and proper or over the top diva. It screams either drama in the bright shades or innocence in the demure ones. Love it or hate it we all have some pink in our closets whether it was a gift, a safe buy or being caught in a moment of girl power 🙂

The different shades add dimensions plus all designers from jewellery to apparel to accessories to beauty all have products in the various hues of pink. I think it screams girl power not to say I was also wary of the shade for a while. So let’s take a look at some essential items in this ultra feminine shade :

1. Rani Pink Sarees : Rani pink a colour that suits all south asian women due to its undertone . I think it compliments all skin tones beautifully brightening the skin tone and the aura around. I remember as a kid , my mom had the most gorgeous shades rani pink georgette banarsi saree that I loved and am still dying to add a similiar one to my wardrobe. Though my husband did gift me a banarsi silk of cream and pink. I think rani pink banarsis look so gorgeous and compliment the dull winter season.

2. Baby pink Nail Polish : Though it’s a staple but it does add a little finesse to the hands. My personal favourite is to do a french manicure with it , coz the pink adds a little extra.

3. Nude pink lipsticks : A must especially with the nude lips craze. But I always prefer glossy over matte. Plus I think a flavoured lip gloss with a tinge of pink does the trick as well.

4. Pale pink lehengas : Pinks have always been a bride favourite, but Anushka Sharma’s Sabyasachi Bridal Lehenga has taken pink to a whole other level. Personally onion pink or pale pink lehengas even for guests especially for day weddings look gorgeous and blissful. I am a fan of full skirt lehengas with delicate shimmer or embroidery as they are more fun. I think it’s a must addition to wedding attire as it adds a feminine flair.

5. Pink perfumes: Whether it’s the latest coach perfumes, Ralph Lauren Romance or Burberry. All top fragrance brands always have a pink perfume. Firstly I love the bottles and then the smell is so fresh and glamorous that I think it’s a must as a good scent is an essential item for all women.

6. Pink Winter Wear: Just solid pinks irrespective of the shade, I think is such a must for the winter wardrobe as it definitely does brighten one up. With the weather being drab and cold, pink adds a warmth and definitely lifts up the spirit. Pale pink coats, champagne pink pashmina or pink hoodies and leather jackets all make one look chic.

7. Champagne pink clutches : Clutches, miniauderies or potli bags in Champagne pink give a nice shimmer and are an amazing accessory to glamourize the evening outfits. They are fun and the glimmer makes one feel like a diva.

8. Pink leheriya : Whether a saree or dupatta or even an anarkali, pink leheriyas are classic. The white and pink stripes with a little gotta Patti work or borders is totally ethnic chic and a trend that is forever. It screams heritage and the print is flattering on everybody and the colours work for all skin tones.

Thus, ” Pink is my favourite crayon” in words of Aerosmith , for me rather the palette has a hue or shade for everyone. So let’s embrace our inner divas and get Pink’ed.

Red-agade

 
   Red – striking, bold, sexy, bridal, festive, provocativr.. so many adjectives come to mind. Some love it, some hate it and some are even scared to carry it off. I come in the last category to the extent that didnt even wear a full red outfit on my wedding day (traditional indian muslim brides do). Well we all know am not traditional, but the idea of full red scared me. I have never worn red too much, maroon some what but bright red, cherry red , burning red .. don’t think I have the confidence to carry it . Even though I wear all colours dark or light and the only bright red items I own are obviously red super high pumps those I wear with style .

This got me thinking why we have a love and hate relationship with this colour. Is it because of all the notions it carrys or is it the aura it brings. The colour has carved it’s own niche and am sure if your rummage through your closet you will find atleast one piece of cloth with some red in it. If you are married, then definitely a couple of bridal trousseau outfits since it is so closely associated with wedding finery. Though nowadays most brides opt for more subtle colours but still the red banarsi saree resonates the demure but classy bride. You can run but you definitely can’t hide from this traditional asian colour. The red pout has even made sure now it’s in the must have lipstick shade, still something I rarely sport.


So, the question is how do we underplay it if we still like to add it to our wardrobe and am not talking about red print or embroidery or sequines  or laces but actually complete red pieces.

Pair it with the neutrals : shades of

• white, black and brown
• Colour block with same hued shades : blue, orange, purple, pink
• Shimmer it up with metallics : silver, gold and copper shades
• Monochrome it with it’s own shades and hues
• Texturize it with mixing fabrics of the same colour.         
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•                            My personal favorite it is to make it pop, using one red piece at a time. I feel like there is nothing sexier than a pair of red heels but that is so cliche and then there is the red dupatta which is also overdone. I feel the best way to wear red is to actually flaunt it , coz that will definitely up your confidence level. Happiness,  love are all associated with this colour and in asian cultures tradition as well. My most must have red pieces in anyones wardrobe list are :
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• Red Ruby slippers : Dorothy definitely had the shoe fashion down . I prefer leather pumps as they never go out of style (non shiny)
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• A shade of red lipstick ( I prefer glossy ones as matte ones when bleed look stained or blood oozing)
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• A red dress ( it can definitely up your style quotient)  : my go to silhouette is sheath as it’s more structured and with red makes it more classy.
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• A red saree : looks chic , festive and modern at the same time. Red banarsi or brocades are definitely classy but I find them too heavy, a good georgette or chiffon with a heavier border does the trick irrespective of age.
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• A full red salwar suit,  something that I have started acquiring now. The traditional red silk salwar suits look amazing, but even chiffon a line  kurtas with butter crepe pants do the trick in a classier way.
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• A wrap around red blouse or shirt. I think it blends so beautifully for fitted skirts and pants . Gives dress to impress a different flare.    
• Red Bangles : Whether glass or metal, gold plated or diamond encrusted. Red bangles speak festivity and add such a nice cling to the hands and compete the look simply.                                                                     These are different pieces that can definitely add pop to your closet but also increase your confidence or brighten up your mood. Since the festive season is in full swing , it’s time to give your red outfits a whirl. Happy Diwali, let’s light up our lives. Get red-dy 🙂   
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To see or not to see

Quarantine life has made digital tv one of the most popular pastime. Just like everyone else I decided to catch up. Different characters tell different stories not only by acting but even by the way they dress.

The recent indian series on digital platforms, most of the main characters are supposed to look sexy or very straight laced but there is no in between. Characters have layers , straight hair doesnt mean innocent nor curly hair wild.  One has to remember that the way they carry themselves and clothes they wear is a direct representation for what they do and who they work for.

I feel media either shows work wear as boring or sexy and nothing in between. The art of being comfortable in ones own skin often comes only when we are true to ourselves. Whether it’s the bling that makes us feel glamorous or the ethnic prints which bring forth are cultural preferences.

 
Television has the most reach and alot of style inspiration on the streets is ‘as seen on tv’. I have been watching indian and us shows, somehow walking down streets of New York in Manholo Blahniks is far more believable than doing housework in decked up kanjeevarams and 22 karat gold sets.  Even the sitcoms set in Bombay dont seem to have taken inspiration from the street trends or even the glitterati of the commercial capital.  So much for me criticizing , now let’s look at what actually works for us in real life if serious inspiration is taken :
1. A great pair of shoes can take up your look several notches.


2. Always have a personal touch to any look so it will always be your signature style statement.


3. Over accessorizing can kill the outfit.


4. Work wear is not limited to suits and black pants.


5. Bling can be worn in the day as well just have to know how to tone it down.
6. Subtle eye make up always goes with any outfit day or night.
7. Sarees are more versatile and can be draped in various ways to suit your personality.
8. Hairstyles can completely change your style.
9. Confidence can make any outfit rock .
Thus, each character is dressed as what it’s supposed to be its core purpose to the sitcom. We ape the styles and looks, but following trends blindly is the biggest mistake. Our bodies, personalities,  life style are  completely different though they may make us look trendy but could also back fire.

 
My knowledge of Manholo Blahniks was thanks to Sex and the City but I also know how much Headbands were a fad due to Gossip Girl. Whereas big earrings and big bindis were a trend in India thanks to all the Ekta Kapoor Serials a.k.a the bigger the bindi , more evil the vamp. Recent times,  Four More Shots probably inspired the lob as the trendy hairstyle.


Thus, Rachel’s ( Friends)  character started the layer haircuts and Mr.Bajaj ( Kasauti Zindagi Kay) got the salt and pepper hair in trend.  So these characters were epitomized for the style quotient and even with the whole Nagin wave, bustiers and belly chains might be the upcoming trend.
  Thus , translating styles is difficult but encompassing them as a part of ones look will make it better. So, inspiration is way better than imitation.

(T)rumpled

Fashion is always an inspiration of the environment it breeds in. Recently we have seen the silhouettes change from straight to curved, but now we are way ahead as they are evolving into shapes that we have seen.

Silhouettes are always tricky as they look different on different body types. Recent trends have even been inspired from different art forms. The most common one being the trumpet. Whether we see it in sleeves, pants and now even in dress styles. It gives a different flair and adds a flirty feel. The gathered hemline adds a feminine touch.

Trumpet silhouettes are very similar to Mermaid silhouette skirts but the main difference is that the flare in trumpet starts mid thigh and also the flare is more gradual. Thus making it less dramatic. Plus the edges in sleeves and pants are more pleated.
Initially famous in bridal gowns it graduated to more casual clothing. The trend then developed from western to ethnic fashion as well, as bottoms of traditional salwar suits have been evolving towards a more pant style trend.

Voluminous sleeves is trendy but ruffled edges with a straighter silhouette tend to give a more structured look. Recent trends have been focusing so much on sleeves that these sleeves also deviated a bit from the usual options.
Thus, trumpet silhouettes work as :
1. It has structure which gives it a leaner shape.
2. The flared edge takes centre stage highlighting the hemline thus, shifting focus towards a longer frame.


One thing to keep in mind when using this silhouette is clashing prints or embroidery as that would turn it into an eyesore. I have used it for my pants, skirts, sleeves and plan to add one now to my kurta Collection as well. So, go ahead and trump up your closet.

Chiffonization

Chiffon is a lightweight, balanced plain woven sheer fabric, or gauze. The twist in the crepe yarns puckers the fabric slightly in both directions after weaving, giving it some stretch and a slightly r ough feel.

Early chiffon was made purely from silk but now after man made fabrics were introduced there are polyester and different kinds of varieties available.

  Over the years understanding fabrics and designs, I feel chiffon is underrated cause in India chiffon is associated with Yash Raj heroines clad in chiffon sarees, but the potential of the fabric doesn’t end there. The fall and texture of the fabric makes it usable for all sorts of design, its delicate yes but elegant for sure.http://www.sobianazir.net  Chiffon suits with print and embroidery are the perfect summer outfit for dressy occassions. Its light and airy but the lining should be flowy and breathable so cotton restricts the fall. I always find butter crepe works best due to its fall.   The best chiffons are the ones made from pure silk as they have the sheen and softness. The most iconic silk chiffon used was the plunging neckline dress by Versace for Jennifer Lopez. The versatility of the fabric, whether printed, embroidered or the latest trend hand painted makes it elegant. In India,  the focus has been more on organza and net but I feel chiffon stands a class apart. Painted chiffon sarees look classy even for an evening summer soiree depending on how you style it.   Heavy chiffon suits with embroidery or even patches add a touch of class amongst the run of the mill embroidered net and cotton suits for summer night parties. Its sheerness is not its drawback but actually its strength as it makes the fabric light and does not add bulkiness in the silhouette.
   Chiffon sleeves are best without lining as they are sheer but if cut well can be an adornment on ones arms. Chiffon dresses and skirts (long or short) add a flow to a structured outfit.   Mostly available in pastels but now they have darker colors as well. Ots a dyeing fabric so can be changed a couple of times . Very popular as a  drape but now is even used for jackets , shrugs and capes.
  Things to keep in mind while choosing a chiffon outfit :

• Colour : Its not necessary that dark colours always make us slim. Chiffon works best in pastels or brighter shades as it adds an airiness to a silhouette.
• Attachments :  Edgings and borders are used to enhance a fabric giving it a more occasion wear touch. Heavy borders are a big no as they will weight it down or tear it as it is a very light fabric.
• Decorations : Threadwork is best with different colours and little sequins. Stone work can cause tears. Sequins give a nice shimmer. Paint adds elegance making it an art piece.
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• Silhouette: Since it is flowy in nature it’s not necessary to have a voluminous silhouette or skirt. I find it looks best in very basic straight or aline or sheath in terms of dresses, tops and kurtas. The simple structured cut gives it a more elegant appearance as too much flowy fabric can look to frivolous.
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• Bottoms : Chiffon is delicate and can tear, thus pants can be a risky bet with it. Skirts, lehengas and maybe salwar ( sported by Kareena Kapoor) are a good bet.  Just remember it will still need a lining.
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• Prints : All kinds of prints whether digital or hand painted look good on the fabric. Just make sure there is spacing so one can see the actual fabric as by itself it is able to add colour and dimension. On my wishlist is a handpainted picchika saree.
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          Thus, I have added chiffons as a
      yearly staple in my closet. Its.     
     dainty and elegant . So sheer and
     shimmer away.

Summer Loving

With the temperatures on the rise , the need for breathable fabric turns into a necessity and especially with the festive season coming close cotton salwar suits become the rage.
Cotton salwar suits with prints or embroidery seem to be the only 2 op
tions to go with. Ready made markets save time and energy and in current times might become the only solution for shopping as with social distancing getting them stitched will become even more difficult.


Fabrics with small prints look airy and cooling , especially small floral prints .I am not a fan of pure cotton suits as I find them too much to handle but about 2 years ago I discovered Farida Gupta. A delhi based design house specializing in printed cotton suits with minimum embellishments.  She has become quite a rage in the last 2 to 3 years . My aunt has been wearing her suits for a while and I finally bought some on my last trip to Delhi as she was having an exhibition at the same time.
And I must say her sizes are perfect they fit like a glove, and the fabric is the softest cotton you will ever wear.The designs are prints with little embellishments in terms of sequins,  but appealing and not appalling.  Prints are not going overboard in any piece. All the pieces are sold seperately so one has the option to customize the look as per their tastes.  She has all the collections online where I think for summers there is also option of sarees, which I plan to get one soon. For winters she has also started satin collection and jackets. One can find dresses, shirts, pants,  kurtis, palazzos, shararas, night wear, kimono, jackets so, it’s not only for ethnic wear.I bought 3 suits and they are perfect. One is chanderi based a little party wearish and the other 2 are cotton. The styles are trendy as well as simple, I love the combinations used especially the medley of colours and prints. She is slightly on the expensive side but I think she is worth it plus on the website there is also a Fg steals section.


The other brand in ready made indian wear I like is Biba. I prefer their mixed suits as the cotton suits the sizes are not exact and always require some alterations. Their fabrics and styles are always trendy I find them great for everyday wear. They are easier on the pocket and also easily available in their stores and pantaloons as well. Their colours are easy on the eye and their palazzos actually have great flare. Their embroidered suits lasts really long and the textures are excellent.  I have bought atleast a couple suits a year from Biba in the last 5 years as by default I have always found something I have liked on every visit to their suit.With their online store shopping from them has become much easier.  They also have a great western wear and kids collection with ethnic prints . I have actually bought numerous outfits as gifts as they are durable and always give a good fit. They also have a sale section under Factory Outlet on the website. I have never been disappointed in a suit from there yet and especially love their knit churidars they are the best quality and most durable.


Thus, these 2 brands are becoming my go to for readymade ethnic wear. I am more of a feel and touch shopper but have to say the sizes at Farida Gupta are perfect, she also denotes it in US sizes for an easy understanding of ones size.  When in doubt I can order from these  2 and know I will have the right salwar suit that I am looking for. So happy summer shopping. 
Yours truly in Biba

Yours Truly in Farida Gupta

I am so lawn-some

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Summer months coming and Ramzan and eid coming up the hunt for airy fabrics which will make festivals easy have started. It’s a plain weave textile made of cotton fibres. Lawn is a lightweight, sheer cloth, . Lawn is known for its semi-transparency, which can range from gauzy or sheer to an almost opaque effect, known as lining or utility lawn. The finish used on lawn ranges from soft to semi-crisp to crisp, but the fabric is never completely stiff. Lawn can be white, or may be dyed or printed. It’s a more smoother and shinier cousin of the regular cotton.

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I have been using this fabric since the last 3 years and prefer it over cotton, though not easily available in shops but a bunch of online businesses sell it as it is very popular in our neighbouring countries. Summer designs of Pakistani and Middle eastern designers are mostly lawn fashions. It’s a twist from the regular suits we get in india.

The prints and embroidery are more floral or geometric with a mix of indie prints as well. The embroidery is finer and the use of trimmings and borders adds the much needed embellishment for festive occassions. Lawn suits not only come with lawn dupattas but also chiffon, broshia and net as well lifting it from regular to semi formal wear. I personally love the sheen of the fabric and how light it feels against the skin especially during the hot and dry summer months.

Lawn fashions also gives us a huge range of designs for salwar suits as they consist of detailing and different styles, silhouettes and cuts for the bottoms specially. The idea of shararas and 3/4 trousers was refashioned by the lawn designers. They have made salwar suits more modern and trendy in its outlook rather than just the plain salwar and churidar. The modern woman is open to alot more fashion ideas and wants to transform her wardrobe into different styles keeping her personal beliefs or limitations.

Some of the biggest Pakistani designers like HSY, Maria B,Sobia Nazir, Gul Ahmed, Sana Safinaz create their summer designs exclusively in lawns and chiffons. Brands with a more affordable price tag are ZS Textiles, Tawakkal ,etc.

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The use of patches and net/organza embroidered borders have been much in use with this fabric as sometimes embroidery might get too heavy and bring the fabric down. The position of patches, different prints for the back and sleeves also makes stitching these designs a little difficult. But if the tailor is smart these suits come out looking completely unique and once you are hooked then that’s all you will want in your wardrobe. My go to business is Areebah Collection who I have been a regular customer with and never disappointed with the quality and service. They bring the latest designs to your doorstep and I have gotten alot more people hooked onto this fabric. The price range starts around 1000 ( for copies )and 4000 and above for originals. You can find them on Facebook and Instagram under the same name. I feel getting a decent suit in less that is also now nearly impossible. So while summer shopping look around for some lawn suits and you will look (l)awesome for sure.

Things to keep in mind while getting lawn stitched or designed : 1. The design with the fabric is just a reference as the occasion is the best deciding factor for the actual design. 2. I always use contrasting trimmings, I feel the bring out the base colour even more. 3. Expirementing with bottoms is easy with lawn as its elasticity is better. I have normally always gotten different types of pants,I feel flared ones give a better look. 4. Lawn dupattas are huge and alot of times people have also made kurtas out of them . 5. Its important to pay attention to the placement of patches and trims if you want it to look exclusive. 6. The cut is the most important part of any design, especially as the fall depends on it. 7. Don’t over embellish or accessorize as the clash of prints and colours can be revolting. 8. Designing a lawn suit also requires prints being lightly used while stitching it so as to design doesn’t get to jarring. Like shortening the kurta or straighter sleeves so one part of the design remains the focal point.

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Yours truly in lawn designs thanks to Areebah Collection.

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Yummy Mummy

So it’s been a while since I have blogged as being a first time mom now to a toddler has my hands full. But becoming a mom doesn’t mean one forgets their passion and likes. So here am back writing about what I love . Dressing becomes different as sometimes comfort and functionality take precedence. Sometimes body image rules the silhouettes we choose. But I have realized one thing I still feel the most confident in clothes that are my style and not the ones which are worn for comfort.

As a young mom I think its important that we don’t loose our personas because of the other roles we are juggling. There are some things which will always be you in the sense which speaks about your personal style . So don’t shy away from having what you are most comfortable with.

Changing bodies may make us feel like nothing looks good anymore. Remember weight can be lost or gained but time not, so by missing an outing because nothing fits is just lost of a memory which could be precious.

So while all this is important here are certain things to keep in mind for keeping your style game up while keeping up with everything else :

1. Remember what makes you feel good : Whether its wearing a pair of stilletoes or skinny Jean’s its important that we feel confident in whatever we wear so we are ready to take on the world.

2. Ramp fashion is not necessary street fashion: There are so many fashion trends and designs we see that we think will look lovely but they do not always look good or even appropriate for everyday wear. Sculpted gowns by Gaurav Gupta are exquisite but in reality handling them with a baby and heels may not be the best option. Pemplum tops are so waist cinching but might look like peplum maternity wear after delivery. So choose wisely and sometimes practicality becomes a reality in fashion choices.

3. Body acceptance: One of the biggest and toughest things for new moms. Getting back into shape is a process but the most importance is health , so while the process is on choose clothes which make you love your new shape. Once we are confident in our skin then we can carry anything with confidence. You do not have to hide yourself under baggy clothes and tent silhouettes, always retain your signature style as that will always up your style game.

4. Age appropriate: While the definition of appropriate is based on situation , occasion, etc. But somethings might make just make you feel inappropriate. Booty shorts , Crop tops, elastic waisted pants, etc. Indian moms tend to hide behind baggy kurtas or anarkalis. The point is to remember your age just because you had a child doesnt make you an aunty and neither this hanging out in the play area a teenager. As we step into the next phase maturity has to extend to our choice of clothing as well but doesnt mean it only has to be boring or practical.

My earrings courtesy : Inaaya Pearls ( available on Facebook and Instagram)

5. Accessorize : One might feel accessories are a hassle with a little one tugging on your earrings and long necklaces but that doesnt mean you dont dress up as you want. Accessories are an important part of your outfit as they give you a put together look. There are days when it feels like too much of an effort but then there are times when a good accessory can perk up your entire look. Big studs, stacked rings , bangles , a cute hair piece which are a less distracting for a child or out of reach. Belts and scarves can add texture and colour as well.

6. Classics are an investment: Buying a good pair of jeans, all purpose handbags, a comfortable pair of heels and casual shoes are all important. With are changing size we feel let’s just do with what we have, but buying a pair of Jean’s which fit your current size is very important as it will be in use , shoes make or break the outfit so it’s not always necessary to live in your comfy kids or fitflops. Buy a nice cute pair of shoes for everyday errands and a nice pair for dressier occasions, I feel wedged work well while balancing baby and bags for formaloccasion. I am personally not a fan of cutesy diaper bags and have never been a knapsack person, so the only choice for me was totes. There are bag insert (from kilofly) options available on different web portals these come with compartments to store all the million things and can fit into a largetote. Also now a lot of designers create diaper bags like Coach, Steve Madden, etc. So one can maintain their stylish handbag collections.

7. Makeup : As new moms we get about 5 minutes to get ready if possible or sometimes lesser so we tend to forget the makeup. But it doesnt mean that we cant squeeze enough time to look presentable. Whether it’s just putting an eye liner to wake up your eyes or a red lipstick to brighten your face. I have realized the basic steps if followed then one can always look their best. For me its always a good serum,then moisturizer (mine keeps changing, currently its clinique moisture surge) a bb cream or foundation depending on where am going,concealer, liner and lipstick and maybe a dab of some bronzer highlighter to add some glow. But if you want a simpler routine I think moisturizer with some concealer , kohl or liner or mascara whichever is your eye tool and a nice lip is enough for most outings. Squeezing in 5 minutes for personal grooming is essential just think of it as me time.

Thus, these tips are very basic but very essential. I always make sure I leave the house looking presentable at all times, coz that’s who I am. We get so busy taking care of our little ones that we forget they also look up to us for everything. I always make it a point to design my indian wear and take my trip to the tailor seriously. My son pretends to put his moisturizer and brushes his hair before we go out.

Looking good and feeling good never goes out of style. Happy mommies are the prettiest so 5 minutes of me time can make all the difference not only in our appearance but also do wonders for our confidence.

Like writing this post after so long, is now wanting me to do this a weekly thing as that’s what defines me. So stay stylish and focused fellow mommies.

Dramatize again

I think I have been on a blogging break for 2 years or more now and I think about restarting it every week, but then the dilemma becomes what should it be about? Plus life as a mother of a toddler leaves you little time for self indulgence so then again it goes on hold.

While reading my Sunday Newspaper I came across an article about how since kids are dressing like adults , it is natural for adults to aspire for childlike clothes again? It sounds so wrong as it makes me wonder which 30 year old woman wants to dress up with pigtails and a frilly frock? I also personally feel 3 year olds should not be wearing sexy clothes , maybe that makes me old school!

Fashion is always how we Express ourselves and what we want others to percieve about us. I am firm believer our clothes sometimes speak louder than our personality as we live in a vain world. We judge a book by its cover .

I personally do have butterfly sleeve outfits , I like lace and a frill edgings in a whimsical way but the idea of a frill dress I detest. I think appropriateness becomes very important in regular wear. Fashion has come a long way, with fun silhouettes and fantasy fabrics which can really make one feel magical, but there is a huge difference between princess and childish. Fashion is what we want to represent of ourselves , as our personal style is our persona.

It’s not about age appropriate but more about body appropriate. Incorporating as a part of our look is different than making it our look. So dress as you feel but also how you want to feel 🙂

Beauty Box

Sorry it has been a while but my mom duties have been taking up most of my time. Being a first time mom is a great feeling but also makes one not want to loose their identity in this new role. I had actually started putting together a make up box for myself about 5 months ago but that was put to a stop since February, so finally now got around to doing it.

While trying to decide on the products that would suit my skin, style and budget. It is important to know what you should spend on and what you can skimp on. I researched about which is the best and what would work for my needs. So here are some pointers on creating the perfect beauty box for you :

1. LIST : Making a list of all the products you need. I was creating one which I could use for daily wear and special occasions. Not that they are that different, it is just that I don’t want to use a foundation everyday so prefer a BB cream. Use how you start your beauty routine as a starting point.

2. CLEANSING : A good face wash and toner are considered the basic essentials for any beauty regime. I am currently using an Elizabeth Arden Prevage face wash , it is from their anti ageing skincare line. I have been wondering at what age should one start using the anti ageing products and now think above 30 is the right time, I also think it depends on how young your skin feels. Always make sure you use a face wash which suits you and targets the flaws or concerns you have about your skin. Nature based face wash products always seem more effective for acne and pore related problems. The other important cleansing product is also the toner, I used the Clinique toner in the past but have been using rose water recently. It’s cooling and smells nice as well. I also would advice in using a face scrubbing brush as it really does remove dead skin and gives your face a nice scrub leaving it smooth and ready.

Major buys : Cleansing brush

My box : Estee Lauder perfectly clean foam cleanser, rose water, Clinique cleansing brush

2. HYDRATING : I have become a fan of the Ceramide capsules of the Prevage line, as their pure collagen and are like an oil drop to moisturize your face. They give a nice glow and work well on any skin tone. Most cosmetic giants have capsules and serum which are for anti ageing or elasticity. These capsules are not reactive and make your skin more supple. After the capsule put on a moisturizer . A good moisturizer is something you should spend on as it is the base of all your beauty products. I know ponds and lakme have great everyday products but looking into more expensive skincare lines might actually improve the texture of your skin. While choosing a moisturizer the focus should be on hydration especially during the summer look for one with spf.

Major buys : Moisturizer and serums

My box : Elizabeth Arden visible difference and Ceramide capsules, origins white tea age defying moisturizer

3. PREPPING : Always use a primer before putting a foundation as it evens out the skin giving you a smooth base. There are seperate eye shadow primers and eyelash primers as well. One can use a face primer for eye shadow one as well, eyelash primers are great for elongating the lashes. After the primer use a concealer, this helps in hiding blemishes, spots and marks. Concealer can also be used with a tinted moisturizer for a daily wear foundation.

Major buys : Primer and concealer

My box :Estee Lauder the illuminator and double wear concealer

4. BASE : Clinique’s BIY drops are the perfect option for daily wear foundation as you just add a couple of drops to your moisturizer and your base of done. One can also opt for tinted moisturizer or BB creams and mix it in with your moisturizer to keep it more neutral as well as less caky. One layer of base always works well during the day. A good foundation is one of the most important investments for the perfect make up box. The foundation is the base of your make up and should match your skin colour so always try the foundation on your face before making a purchase.

Major buys : Foundation

My box : Elizabeth Arden Flawless finish foundation, Clinique BIY drops

5. CONTOURING: This has become my latest fixation. Contouring involved 3 products : A Bronzer or a dark eyeshadow, a highlighter and a blush. I used to think it is a very tedious task but is actually not. The simple way to remember is make a no. 3 on each side i.e. use a bronzer on the top of your forehead from one side to the other then right under your cheek bones and on your jawline, also use it on the sides of your nose. After that use a highlighter on your forehead , your nose, cupids bow and under your eye.The blush is used to give color to the apple of your cheeks, during the summer one can also use a light bronzer as a blush for getting a sunkissed glow. The latest technique of strobing involves using only the highlighter and blush making it more easy to highlight your features. Naked, Urban Decay and some more companies have contouring kits and palettes so you have all together making it easier to apply. I personally prefer having a blush palette so I can have more colours to choose from, so have a bronzer and a highlighter separately. I like using the highlighting sticks as they are so easy to use and give a nice sheen to ones complexion. A highlighter can also be used under the eyebrows to brighten the eye, and even be applied on top of your lipstick to give it a metallic sheen. The major investment here should be made in getting a good highlighter and a bronzing powder with a couple of shades. A bronzer duo or trio also gives more uses as a blush or eyeshadow as well. Am currently using the highlighter stick from Elizabeth Arden and a bronzer duo from PINK. Baked blushes tend to have a couple of tints of the same shade, the Sephora coral was a favourite. Cheek stains are another type of blush.

Major buys : A highlighting stick and baked blush palette

My box : Sephora baked blush in coral, estee lauder pure color envy sculpting blush in shades of pink and sunburst highlighter, Elizabeth Arden Beautiful colour bronze duo

7. EYES : After applying a primer, the next step should be the Eye shadow. I personally use a light shade under the brow and the waterline to brighten the eye. Depending on the outfit and occasion the eye can be done up or played down. 3 shades give a nice dimension, use the lightest under the brow and the darkest on the lower lid. I always use an eyeliner and kohl, most times using eye pencils personal favourite being the felt tip ones. My one splurge is the M.A.C black kohl as it is the darkest and smoothest. I always have a black eye pencil but the only other colors I might wear are Brown, green, blue and purple. My go to eye pencil is black so making an expensive buy on that is worth while the other colors are for occasions so they are normally cheaper brand’s. The final touch is the mascara frames your eye, with the immense varieties targeting aspects of lengthening, volumizing and curling one can be confused. Maybelline has some really good mascaras, but I use a lancome primer and keep changing the mascara as the primer really conditions, lengthens and gives a fuller lash effect. Cream shadows give more moisture, lancome has recently introduced the liquid eye shadow which is put with a brush.

Major buys : A black kohl or eye pencil and lash primer

My box : M.A.C definitely black pro.longwear eyeliner, Bobbi Brown long wear eye pencil in black, Clinique skiny jeans skiny stick, Wet and Wild kohl crayon in taupe, ulta eye shadow palette, Lancome Cils booster xl and Elizabeth Arden Ceramide mascara.

8. LIPS :Lips the highlight of any make up, a dash of colour that can change your entire look. Lip oils are the latest range and one of the most hydrating products. Matte, moisturizing, metallic, chubby sticks are just the few types of lipsticks available. Lip liners and lip gloss are other lip products which highlight them. Some prefer to outline lips first and then fill it in, and some apply the lipstick and then line them for a more blended look. Lip crayons, tints and stains are more liquid cream based products. One should always have one nude shade and one bold shade. Red is not the only option as orange and fine are also clearly becoming more popular. Lancome ‘s lip pen, Urban Decay metallic lipsticks in blue and M.A.C lips are becoming popular. Dior’s dioraddict which enhances your natural lip shade.

Major buys : A nude shade and a chapstick.

My box : Faces dress up lipstick, Elizabeth Arden Coral caress lip oil, Clinique chubby stick in Brick Red, Estee Lauder tumultous pink and Powrerful pure color envy lipsticks, Chanel moisture lip paint in Mauve, Elizabeth Arden lip protestant stick

9. FINISHING : Setting powders or spray help keep your make up in place without smudging and gives your face a non greasy look. Lipgloss give a nice sheen and seal in any extra lipstick and no look is complete without having a signature scent which compliments your look and personality. Finding a fragrance also a task and one should always spray it on their hands before buying it as it mixes with your natural scent so no 2 people will smell the same even if they use the same perfume. My personal preferences are more fresh and musky scents.

Major buys : A Setting powder and Fragrance

My box : Bvlgari Omnia, Origins sheer finishing powder and Elizabeth Arden sheer lip gloss

10. APPLICATOR : Your make up is impossible without the right brush application. There is a brush for every product, foundation brushes are soon being replaced by the sponges which are proving to be better applicators and are helpful in contouring as well. Powder brush are best for blush, eye shadow brush help in smoky eyes, lip blushes for even application and even for mixing shades. And the most essential male up remover or wipes which help in cleaning your skin and hydrating it.

Major buy : Make up sponge and powder brush

My box : Bare Minerals brush set with case

Thus, these different products help me create a look which is me and reflects my personality. Make up is so personal and is based on your personal style. Always choose your make up from the foundation to the lipstick as the colours should compliment your natural skin color and tone . So go shopping and get your beauty box!